Dear Tiggy, I’m a lesbian and I have been married to my bisexual partner for four years. For the last three months, she has lost all sexual interest in me. In other ways, our relationship is very good; we hardly ever fight. We’ve spoken openly about this problem and the only source for it seems…
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Ask Tiggy: Traveling While Bi
Dear Tiggy, I’m a 21-year-old female in college studying abroad. I’m unsure if I’m actually bisexual and not knowing makes me really upset. I’ve noticed that aside from a certain kind of guy, there’s also a certain kind of girl I’m attracted to. Right now, there’s a girl in my abroad program who I’m crushing…
Ask Tiggy: Then and Now
Dear Tiggy, I have known for a few years that I’m bisexual but have only recently begun to tell a few people. I’ve been contemplating telling my big sister in my sorority, but the other day, I heard her tell my other sisters that she thought that there was no such thing as being bisexual….
Ask Tiggy: Voices of Youth
Dear Tiggy, I’m a bisexual woman in college “dating” (read: hooking up with) this guy I’ll call “Dan.” He’s in a fraternity with “Michael” who’s dating (read: going on dates with) my good friend, “Mary.” Mary and I met in our university queer group. Mary identifies as a lesbian but she genuinely likes Michael as…
Ask Tiggy: When I Knew
Dear Tiggy, My husband of 14 years left me in February. I’m recovering, although I’m still not sure if I miss what we had or I’m just scared of being alone. I have five wonderful kids and am only 33 years old. I started dating again and have slept with four guys – one…
Ask Tiggy: Out at Work
Dear Tiggy, I’ve worked for a state agency in New Hampshire for seven years but I’m almost ready to throw in the towel. I’ve experienced relentless harassment from some of my coworkers regarding my bisexuality. It’s mostly just one person, although she gets the others in on it. The harassment is not usually overt, just…
Ask Tiggy: Faith and Spirit
Dear Tiggy, I am 24 years old, a new convert to Catholicism, happily married, and bisexual. My husband knows about my sexuality and is understanding, loving, and supportive. I am out only to him and a few friends. I don’t know whether I should come out to my family. My family is predominantly Evangelical and…
Ask Tiggy: People Say the Strangest Things
Dear Tiggy, I feel really shaken up and need your advice. I was exchanging emails on Facebook with a cute guy I met at King Richard’s Faire. He told me that he thought I was pretty and nice but he had a big problem with my bisexuality. Specifically, it meant to him that I am…